First, I don't know why you would call someone ELMANI or KAFIR or whatever name you choose and put yourself in the position of JUDGING people.

Secondly, I don't see where BaJubair is a ELMANI or a KAFIR.

Third, You don't seem to acknowledge all those girls and boys that we see in London , Paris, Neice, Cannes and Rome every summer and what they do, but you choose to PUNISH BaJubair simply for talking about this and not because he said anything that is ELMANIYAH or KOFOR.

Fourth, He didn't ask individulas to go seek other individuals he actually was talking about a Mechanism of FAMILIES in which they can overcome their problems.

Fifth, If something is NEW or UNUSUAL it does not mean it is BAD or HARMFUL espicially if there is a presence or supervision of a well understanding FAMILIES.

Sixth, I will be ready for your reply which I seem to know what you are planning to say.